Deadline for submission for next Steeple Biweekly is Friday, November 12, at noon.
November 7, 10:30 a.m.
Partner Church Sunday
Rev. Harold Babcock
"Seeking the Future in the Past"
This morning marks the beginning of a week of celebration of our decade long Partner Church relationship with the Unitarian church of Ujszekely, in Transylvania, a beautiful, mountainous region of Romania. We will kick off a week of fundraising activities to help bring our Partner Church minister Zsolt Jakab and his wife Borika, and the church president Jozsef Buzogany and his wife Susi, to Newburyport in April. On the evening of Thursday, November 11, there will be a potluck dinner and slide presentation about our Partner Church, and we will be taking orders for a Partner Church calendar and auctioning off some wonderful Transylvanian craft items (great for Christmas gifts!). Our hope is to raise at least $3000.00 to fund the visit of our friends from Ujszekely. My sermon takes its cue from a quotation by Transylvanian Gabriel Daniel: "For it is the past, upon which the future relies." The Teen Choir will sing. There will be no Young Church classes this morning, but there will be childcare provided in the nursery. I look forward to seeing you in church!
-Harold Babcock
Flowers - The flowers for today's service are donated by Mary Wilkins Haslinger in memory of Margaret and Gayden Morrill.
Steeple Lighting - The steeple lighting this week is donated by Freida Marion in memory of Mr. and Mrs. Frederic K. Castelhun and Mr. and Mrs. Karl Castelhun.
Chalice Lighters - Carol and Leila Bisgrove.
Coffee Hour - Cecilia and Paul Healy.
Partner Church Potluck - Come and learn more about our Partner Church in Romania in the Parish Hall on Thursday, November 11, at a 6:00 p.m. Partner Church potluck dinner/slide show and fundraiser. Please tell Vicki Dyer (978.465.0602) what dish you will be bringing.
Ujszekely Organ Repair - Some pictures just came from the organ people in Harman. They show the dismantling of the Ujszekely organ to take to the workshop. They also send greetings from Zsolt and Borika, with whom they had a "very nice time" although all the folks there were very busy getting in the corn while the weather was still sunny. Thanks to these people who have contributed toward the organ repair at our Partner Church: Harold & Sabrina Babcock, Marj Babcock, Michael Fosberg, Roger & Louise Hatch, Claudia Keyian, Max Russell, Meredith Russell, Peg Nicol, Elizabeth Ring, and Pat Skibbee. Furthermore, we have received funds from some members of the Organ Historical Society. We're about halfway to our goal of $8,000.
-Barbara Owen
Here are pictures of the organ being removed from our partner church:
There will be a memorial service for Mary Whiting in the church on Saturday, November 6, at 2:00 pm. A reception will follow in the Parish Hall. The service was previously announced in the Daily News as taking place on Sunday, November 7.
November 14, 10:30 a.m.
New Member Recognition Sunday
Rev. Harold Babcock
"Come As You Are"
This morning we will once again welcome new members-those who have decided to become legal voting members of the congregation and who have submitted an Application for Membership-into the fellowship of the First Religious Society in a Ceremony of New Member Recognition. My colleague Roy Phillips used to invite new members of the Unity Church UU in St. Paul, Minnesota, to "come as you are." The sermon will investigate what this might mean for all of us.
-Harold Babcock
Flowers - The flowers for today's service are donated by Carolyn Dawson in loving memory of her mother, Nan Kemp.
Steeple Lighting - The steeple lighting this week is donated by Hope and Vinny Wood in celebration of their anniversary.
Chalice Lighters - The Membership Committee.
Coffee Hour - Allyson Lawless and Sabrina Babcock.
During this worship service, we will welcome new members at a New Member Recognition Ceremony. If you have any questions about becoming a member of the First Religious Society, please speak to Harold Babcock or call John Mercer, Administrator at 978.465.0602 or send him an e-mail at frsuu@netway.com.
New Member Luncheon -- The annual New Member Luncheon is scheduled this Sunday in the lower meetinghouse, following the worship service. If you joined the FRS between November 2003 and November 2004, you will receive a personal invitation by mail. Please RSVP to Ann Kemp and let her know if you will attend and need babysitting services. We look forward to getting to know one another better over brunch and good conversation.
There will be a memorial service in the church on Sunday, November 14 at 3:30 p.m. for our long-time member Frank Forrest Morrill. Frank died on October 26 while vacationing with his three sons. They wished to share the following with our congregation: "Frank was devoted to this Unitarian Church. His family wishes to thank the Church membership for the kindness, love and support you gave him, especially during these last nine years following the death of his wife Frances." A reception will follow in the Parish Hall.
Calling All Instrumentalists - Brush off the case and open it, examine your instrument, wiggle your fingers a bit, and join the fun! On Sunday, December 12, at the 10:30 service, the FRS Band will lead the carol singing. Rehearsals for this grand event will be immediately after church on Sundays for about 30 minutes starting November 14 in the Choir Room. Ace trombonist and general all around jazz maven Edson Worden will lead the group.
-Frances Burmeister
News from Young Church
Hungary for Hot Dogs? (Excuse the bun . . . er, pun)
A group of FRS youth will be doing some serious fundraising throughout the year so that they can participate in a Unitarian Universalist youth trip to Transylvania next summer. Their fundraising humbly kicks off with a hot dog sale after church on November 7. Please stop by, enjoy a dog, and help send these youth to visit with our partner church on what will undoubtedly be a life-changing experience.
Volunteers Needed for Young Church Holiday Term
We need volunteers to work with children and youth for three Sunday mornings, beginning November 21. Activities are planned for these weeks leading up to our holiday pageant; now all we need is you! Available opportunities include helping children create visually stunning props for the pageant, working with our preschoolers, and leading a social service project. We also need assistants. This is a great opportunity for you to be involved in Young Church. The commitment is brief, the contribution invaluable. If you're interested, please contact Julie Parker Amery.
Thanks, Skeleton Crew!
Thank you to Kim Gallagher and Maura Perkins, who helped make 65 sugar skulls and all the fixin's for use in Young Church on October 31.
Senior Youth Group
Recently, the Senior Youth Group devoted their saturday afternoon to cleaning up a large section of beach on Plum Island.

Armed with gloves and bags, the group took on the challenge with gusto and gathered several pounds of litter, discarded objects, and other trash helping to make the beach cleaner and safer for beach-goers and wildlife.

For their efforts, they were rewarded with pizza and a movie at the church. A great time was had by all!
SENIOR YOUTH GROUP BAKE SALE
Sunday, November 14th after Church
BENEFITING . . .
- Many organizations chosen by the Youth Group
- Worthy local charities
- Many Youth Group Events!
FOOD . . .
- Many delicious treats bought and baked by the Youth Group
DON'T FORGET . . .
- Your loose change
- Your hungry appetite
- Good cheer
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Brown Bag Lunches - All are welcome. Bring your lunch and join us in the Lower Meetinghouse every other Tuesday - coffee and dessert provided, as well as conversation - and a project - help the staff with a mailing, polish the Alliance silver or do some other task for the church. Next meeting is Starts Tuesday, November 16, noon, with a Biweekly mailing while we enjoy lunch together.
-Vicki Dyer
There will be a memorial service in the church for our friend and church member Ann Descoteaux on Saturday, November 20, 2004 at 3:00 p.m. A reception will follow in the Parish Hall.
Greetings from Leanna Sorcar - FRS member Leanna Sorcar is settled now at 1227 Kansas Street in Chickasha, OK 73018.
Thanks to Mary Rizzo for her donation to the Memorial Garden Fund.
From the Social Action Committee
In November we will be donating one-third of our loose plate collection to the Pettengill House, at 13 Lafayette Road, Salisbury, MA. The Pettengill House supports children and families in Salisbury, Amesbury, Newburyport and Merrimac with a Food Pantry, counseling services, referrals to other local agencies, and help with utility and rental costs, among other services. The Pettengill House supports the Second Step and Project Success programs in the Salisbury and Amesbury school systems for children at risk. The mission of the Pettengill House is that every child should go to school well fed and well rested, thus, ready to learn. In November the Pettengill House provides turkeys and food baskets for hundreds of families in the area. They are grateful for our support this month.
I have had the opportunity to connect with the directors of the organizations the Loose Plate Project is supporting this fall. They are overwhelmed by their organizations' having been chosen by you, the congregation, and by your generous donations to them. They share the common goal of outreach in our community and enjoy knowing that we are reaching out to them. I cannot stress enough how grateful they are for what we are doing here as a community at the First Religious Society. Thank you all for your support!
-Liss Campbell
Massachusetts Bay District Fall Conference 2004 - Using the Arts to Engage the Whole Congregation -at Andover Newton Theological School, Newton Center, MA. Saturday, November 6, from 8:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.
Mass Bay District's biggest annual event will be even bigger this year as it combines with the RE Team's annual Pot of Gold conference. Come join in a day where UU minister and Meadville Lombard educator John Tolley together with experienced practitioners of the visual arts, drama, music, and dance will share insights and provide opportunities to participate in this broader form of communication. Total Cost: $35 adults / $10 students and youth. See the Mass Bay District website (www.mbduua.org/) for more information on the very interesting workshops.
Social Action Alert: Big Recycling
Have you noticed the blue paper-recycling bins around church? They are being used so frequently that we've added Bigger Green Bins! The church staff is making a BIG effort to recycle paper wherever and whenever possible! They are also committed to using 100% recycled paper in the copy machine. Look for the Big Green Bins, and thanks for doing your part to recycle at church!
-Liss Campbell
A reminder to all Young Church Choir and Teen Choir members who will be participating in the "Messiah Sing" - we will be rehearsing after church, from 11:30 to 12:00 noon, on November 7, 14, 21 and 28 in the Upper Parish Hall, our usual rehearsal space. The performance is Sunday, November 28 at 7:00 p.m. All singers are asked to arrive at 6:30 p.m. We will be singing "He Shall Feed His Flock" with strings and harpsichord.
Women's Alliance Meeting, Tuesday, November 9, at 10:00 a.m. - Coffee and pastries will provided by the Alliance, Marj Babcock and Pat Ouellette, Hostesses. Rev. Harold Babcock will speak on "Unitarian Women of Note."
Church of the Larger Fellowship (CLF) Announcement - The UUA website has a new page dedicated to the memory of Christopher Reeve. When asked about his decision to become a UU in an interview with Reader's Digest, Reeve commented: "It gives me a moral compass. I often refer to Abe Lincoln, who said, 'When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. And that is my religion.' I think we all have a little voice inside us that will guide us. It may be God, I don't know. But I think that if we shut out all the noise and clutter from our lives and listen to that voice, it will tell us the right thing to do." Press here to see more.
The Reeve page offers links to an essay by Reeve himself called "Nothing Is Impossible: Reflections on a New Life" as well as Rev. Gary Kowalski's sermon about Reeve and his faith, "The Real Superman," preached at the First Unitarian Universalist Society of Burlington, VT. Rev. Kowalski preached at the FRS during Harold Babcock's sabbatical.
FRS in the World: Kyrgyzstan
Meredith Russell
| Kyrgyzstan! A year ago I had never heard of the country let alone pronounce it and today I'm in love with it. Last fall Max suggested that we join Habitat for Humanity's Global Village project there, and it sounded so exotic that I immediately agreed.
Kyrgyzstan is a country of incredible beauty dominated entirely by the peaks of the Tien Shan Mountains, with glaciers, high altitude lakes, and valleys. The highest peak is over 21,000 feet. The country is a little smaller than South Dakota and bordered by China, Tajikistan, Kazakhstan, and Uzbekistan. There is abundant hydropower and significant deposits of gold and other metals but only 7% of the land is arable with permanent crops grown on 0.39%.
The Kyrgyzstani were a nomadic people until the country was taken over by the Russians early in the last century and brutally forced into settlements. It became an official member of the USSR in the 1930s. In 1991, independence was declared and it is now a fledgling democratic nation trying to find a place in the world.
During the communist years, there were no homeless in Bishkek. Although the apartment blocks are gray and dreary, everyone had shelter with basic amenities. With the fall of Communism, much of the housing is in disrepair. The economy is improving but has been very bad. Wages are depressed; doctors earn the equivalent of $50 a month and most people less. There is no social safety net. Older people may have pensions, but they are so tiny that they can't pay rent and utilities. Many live in unheated apartments without electricity or water.
There have been some individual houses built by Habitat on the outskirts of the city, but the cost is prohibitive so the local affiliate is now buying apartments and rehabbing them. Although Habitat for Humanity International is the overseeing organization, each country forms its own affiliate and makes its own requirements for eligibility. There is a local committee that chooses applicants according to need and ability to pay. Those chosen must find an affordable property. The local group buys, rehabs and sells it to the family with a no-interest, affordable, mortgage, usually no more than their current rent. Each family must also contribute 2000 hours of "sweat equity". (The hours vary according to country, in the US it is between 250 and 500) Many members of a family may contribute time to make the total.
Earlier trips to Third World countries hadn't prepared me for Kyrgyzstan. We landed at dawn, passing American military planes parked on the runway. The airport was orderly and clean. The ten-mile ride into the city of Bishkek was on a wide, smooth boulevard, absolutely straight and flat.
Bishkek sprawls on the only flat area of the country and is surrounded by snow-covered mountain peaks. There are wide roads laid out in a grid, many parks, and trees on every piece of ground that will support them. Although things look a bit shabby and unkempt, the overall impression is of a lovely city. The architecture, on the other hand is comprised of huge, crumbling, concrete, Russian built boxes, each holding dozens of apartments.
Our group of fifteen were housed in four separate apartments, in three buildings all facing a common park. Our accommodations were sparse but comfortable and we had the rare luxury of an elevator to take us to the 5th floor, not common in the other buildings that we visited.
We worked each day with family members and grew to know them well. We met their children and were invited to their homes. They prepared our lunches each day and ate with us. They became our friends and colleagues.
Our group's ages were from 26 to 70. Most of the work was unskilled or easily learned. I scraped paint from window frames, scraped wallpaper from walls, and painted. Perfection is not required! Max and a couple others plastered walls and ceilings. He was the expert and continually urged the others to "Make it as smooth as a baby's bottom." The site supervisors encouraged us to do only what we were comfortable doing and to rest as needed. |
Evening meals were at different restaurants in the city, a different nationality each night and ranged from good to very good. We fixed our own breakfasts in our apartments. Transportation was via a mini-bus.
Highlights of the trip
- The warmth and hospitality of the people.
- The beautiful children who followed us around and tried out their English, "Hello, what's your name?"
- The four little girls who we dubbed The Sewing Circle. They sat on a mat in front of the apartment we were rehabbing and sewed clothes for their dolls.
- Tables laden with traditional foods.
- Traditional drinks, especially Kymys, made of fermented mare's milk.
- Crowded streets of neatly dressed people, women and little girls always in dresses although some teens in jeans.
- Everything written in the Cryllic alphabet, very disorienting.
- Tomatoes and cucumber with dill at every meal.
- Homes with no beds, only a neat stack of colorful pads against a wall to be laid out at night.
- Entire families with all their possessions in one armoire.
We visited one family in their poverty housing. Two families shared a two room apartment on the fifth floor-no elevator-with a tiny kitchen. It was neat with nice furniture and rugs. Four adults and four children slept in one room and used the other for living and eating.
In another apartment, a family of three lived in one room on the sixth floor, no elevator and one bathroom for twenty-six families on that floor. On the ground floor was one shower for the entire building.
We also visited two of the separate homes built by Habitat. One had three rooms, one had four rooms. Each had a large garden area planted with vegetables and fruit trees. A playground adjoined the properties. Each also had an outside toilet in the backyard. Although there are indoor bathrooms, the toilets cannot be connected because there is no sewerage system.
Midway through our stay we took a three day excursion into the mountains. Our bus was a converted Russian army truck. The way we bounced about it seems unlikely that there were any shocks. We had a fantastic white water rafting trip. On our way over a mountain the truck broke down near a small village. During repairs we had time to walk into the village. Swarms of children followed us and made us welcome. It was dusk and the villagers were bringing their cows and goats in from the fields that surround the village. We loved the opportunity to see something of rural life.
We spent a night at a resort on Lake Issykul, one of the largest fresh water mountain lakes in the world. It was a luxury resort but getting a bit seedy now that Russian tourism to the area has nearly disappeared. One night we had a barbeque cruise on the lake as the sun set over the mountains. Magnificent!
Part of our group left after the cruise and spent a night in a yurt in a beautiful valley. Max and I opted out of that trip because they didn't leave until after 10pm and had an hour to travel (on the bouncy bus) to get there. After hearing their stories and seeing the photos, I was sorry to have missed it.
Before leaving for Kyrgyzstan I had made contact, through a travel book site, with an Indian man who lives in Bishkek. Max and I were invited to his home on two occasions to meet Kyrgyz friends and have traditional meals. Another highlight of the trip.
On our final night the families gave a party for us at an outdoor restaurant on the outskirts of the city. Tables laden with food, Kyrgyz dancers and music, gifts and certificates, much laughter and not a few tears, it was a wonderful end to the trip.
The final memorable moment was at the airport when our Maori group member Tatiana sang Now is the Hour in Maori. Beautiful and poignant. |
More Notes from GA 2004
Alexandra Mezey
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Below are notes on one workshop I attended at GA that I think may be of interest:
ON BEING A BOARD RELIGIOUSLY
Presented by UUA Board
UUA board of trustees' member Linda Olsen-Peebles shared ways in which the UUA trustees work as a board responsible to a religious movement. Though the workshop focused on the workings of the UUA Board, the ideas are relevant to any church committee.
Governance is religious work. As the governing body of the UUA, Olsen-Peebles said the board's underlying concern is "how will what we are doing help grow the spirit of the organization we are governing as we care for it's hopes and dreams." She says they ask themselves this question often as they consider the variety of issues they must address. They also focus on how they as a board will work together in right relationship for the benefit of the congregations.
She emphasized that the answers to these concerns may seem obvious ("everyone knows that"), but said it is important to name aloud and agree in writing WHY a board comes together and HOW they come together. She advises against making assumptions about any of these issues, therefore the board has explicit mission and vision statements, as well as a covenant which they revisit each year.
The Board's mission statement is: "We assemble as a joyful, energetic, spiritual community, agents for anti-oppression, open to transformation, proclaiming the values of our liberal faith."
Most important, Olsen-Peebles says, is the covenant, which addresses "HOW we will be together (rather than WHAT we will be together.)" Her point is that having this kind of covenant gives people a way to acknowledge times when they think "I blew it" and have the issue addressed in a forgiving way.
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The Board covenant states: "Inspired by the dynamism and principles of our faith, we, the members of the UUA Board of Trustees, covenant to cultivate and practice mutual respect; to employ the democratic process in our collaborative work; to act out of personal integrity, honesty and trust; and to demonstrate leadership that is caring and nurturing, open and transparent, visionary and empowering. We are committed to champion excellence as we work towards the realization of a healing and transforming, justice-making, anti-oppressive, anti-racist Association and world community."
Each UUA Board meeting consists of
- An agenda, which always includes the vision, mission and covenant statements, as well as issues carried over from previous meetings so they don't get lost/forgotten. A packet including the agenda and related reading material is sent out to board members in advance so they have time to think over issues before the meeting starts.
- A chalice lighting
- Board member sharing a thoughtful reading (this is rotated among board members)
- Brief check in by each member
- Process Observation
Process Observation is a vehicle to monitor how effectively the board works. Because it is too difficult for anyone to follow the content of the meeting and the process at the same time, one person is designated to observe processes (they take turns) using a process observation form for guidance.
The UUA board considers it important to consciously strengthen committees so the board does not end up micromanaging committees. To this end they provide resources and training for them to strengthen committees not only as they function, but also to make succession and recruiting easier.
Importantly, says Olsen-Peebles, the board finds time to get together outside of the board meeting setting; getting to know each other on a social level helps in working together. To ensure continuity, the board holds a pre-meeting retreat after each election of new members.
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Creating the UU Church of the Future
A full-day workshop led by Michael Durall
Saturday, February 12, 2004
This fast-paced workshop is a semester-long course packed into one day. It will encompass a wide variety of issues, including what membership in a UU congregation should mean, creating stronger leadership, more effective stewardship, and why outreach and long-range planning walk together hand in hand. The workshop contains both conceptual issues and practical ways that clergy and lay leaders can be more effective in their roles. This is not a sit-and-listen program. Come prepared to work!
Registration Fee: $350 per congregation, for as many people as a church wishes to send. The fee includes a light breakfast, lunch, afternoon refreshments, and a copy of Durall's latest book, The Almost Church: Redefining Unitarian Universalism for a New Era.
Sponsorship: The workshop is sponsored by the MBD Leadership Resources Council and the MBD Growth Planning Committee
Location: To be announced
Michael Durall is principal of the CommonWealth Consulting Group in Massachusetts (www.vitalcongregations.com and the author of three books about congregational life:
- Creating Congregations of Generous People, published by the Alban Institute.
- Beyond the Collection Plate, published by Abingdon Press.
- The Almost Church: Redefining Unitarian Universalism for a New Era, published by Jenkin Lloyd Jones Press at All Souls Unitarian Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma.
If ten or so lay leaders or lay-leaders-to-be at the FRS were interested in attending,
Oriental Rug Sale
Sunday, November 14th, from 1:00 until 4:30 PM
Unitarian Universalist Society of Wellesley Hills
309 Washington Street
Wellesley, Massachusetts
Proceeds benefit the church and Afghan and Tibetan Refugee Relief Efforts
A Large Selection of Beautiful, Handmade Oriental Rugs
Wide Variety of Sizes, Colors and Designs, including Runners and Kilims
Be Sure to Tell Your Friends
Better Yet, Bring Your Friends!
Questions: call Tod Hibbard 781-239-3697
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