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Without a Vision, the People Perish

THE STEEPLE BIWEEKLY of The First Religious Society of Newburyport,
a member of the Unitarian Universalist Association,
26 Pleasant Street, Newburyport, MA 01950
Office Hours: 9:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m., Monday through Friday
Church Phone:  (978) 465-0602  -  Minister's Line:  (978) 465-6504  -  Fax:  (978) 462-0384
Web Page:  www.frsuu.org  -  e-mail:  frsuu@netway.com
The Rev. Harold E. Babcock, Minister        The Rev. Bertrand H. Steeves, Minister Emeritus

Deadline for submission for next Steeple Biweekly is September 29, 2006, at noon.

September 24, 10:30 a.m.
Rev. Harold Babcock
"The Double Nickel"

This week I turned 55. When I was working at Maine Maritime Academy in the early 1990's, one of my older co-workers overheard me complaining about having reached my 40's. "Wait until you hit the double nickel," he said. Well, I've finally hit it. The sermon will reflect on what, if anything, I have learned in the intervening years about aging, time's passage, and life in general. Though there have been some big losses along the way, it's not nearly as bad as I expected.
-Harold Babcock

Flowers: The flowers this Sunday are given by Robert and Ann Poirier in loving memory of Abigail Poirier, daughter of Robert and Ann and sister to Emily Poirier.

Steeple Lighting: The steeple lighting for this week has been donated by Will and Linda Buddenhagen in loving memory of Linda's mother, Elizabeth Shapleigh Rising, and grandmother, Agnes Bartlett Mercer.

Ushers: Lucie and Mark Gallagher.

Chalice Lighters: Pat Bashford and Ann Kemp.

Coffee Hour Hosts: Maureen Adams, Lee McLaughlin, Jack and Lorraine Adelman, and Ruth Pike Allen.


October 1, 10:30 a.m.
Committee Sunday
Max Russell
"Revisiting Transylvania"

FRS member and frequent visitor to Transylvania, Max Russell will discuss his six-week stay there this past summer as co-crew chief on the Nyiko River Valley Floor Relief Project. He will also speak about his visit to our partner church in Ujszekely and his work on the guest house there.

Harold Babcock will be visiting with Young Church classes this morning.

Flowers: The flowers this Sunday are given by Tom and Tempa Pagel in remembrance of Roberta Pagel, whose greatest joys were family, friends, and gardening.

Steeple Lighting: The steeple lighting for this week has been donated by Mary Wilkins Haslinger in loving memory of her grandparents, Mayor Gayden W. Morrill and Margaret Dodge Morrill.

Ushers: John Lavoie and Ray Coutu.

Coffee Hour Hosts: Bob Allison, Nancy Sullivan, Jonathan March, Jeanne Anderson, Richard Anderson, and David and Marilyn Archibald.

FRS Current Events Forum: 9:30 in Lower Meetinghouse Conference Room; the topic is Torture v. The Geneva Convention; Bush v. McCain.

Committee Sunday: All of the church committees will set up in the Parish Hall during coffee hour. Committee members will be available to give you information about what they do, who they are and how you can get more actively involved in the community.


What's all this talk about a Vision?
Come find out and focus on our future!

Participate in the FRS Visioning process. Join others to share your thoughts about what you'd like the church to be like in the future at one of the upcoming Vision Meetings.
  • Saturday, September 23, 8:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
  • Saturday, September 23, 1:30 p.m. - 5:30 p.m.
  • Sunday, September 24, 1:30 p.m. - 5:30 p.m.
  • Saturday, September 30, 8:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
All members and friends, as well as children in Junior High School and up, are urged to participate. Childcare will be provided. Refreshments will be served.

Sign up today for the Vision Meetings by filling out an insert in the Order of Service, filling out an online form (http://www.frsuu.org/vision.htm#Sign-up) or by calling the church office at (978) 465-0602 x 401.


Lunch with the Minister
Tuesday, September 26 at noon
Story: "God's World" by Najib Mahfuz (in A Celestial Omnibus)
Bring a lunch, all are welcome!

New Members?

During the worship service on Sunday, November 12, 2006, we will once again welcome new members at a New Member Recognition Ceremony. If you have any questions about becoming a member of the First Religious Society, please speak to Harold Babcock or call John Mercer, Administrator at (978) 465-0602, ext. 404, or send him an e-mail at frsuu@netway.com.
Upcoming deadline for Adult Ed sign-up
Call (978) 465 0602 x401 to register

Freemasonry: What is it all about? -- Saturday, October 14, 10:00 - 12:00 -- Led by James Funston -- Lower Meeting House
Through lecture and discussion, we'll discover what Freemasonry is today, its medieval origins, and its historical development. What are Masonic myths, legends, and historical facts? How did it contribute to founding the United States? What does Masonry contribute to religious liberty and tolerance? What has been the Masonic presence and experience in Newburyport and Amesbury, from 1766 to today? How do popular books and films The DaVinci Code and National Treasure present Masonry? Bring your questions and let's talk. Deadline October 9.

The Welcoming Congregation Committee will next be meeting on Tuesday, October 10, at 7:00 p.m. in the Lower Church. New members are always welcome.
FRS Picture Directory
from the FRS Membership Committee

The new 2006 Member Directory is available for FRS members who need it. To pick one up, just stop by the church office during the week or on a Sunday.
Music Committee Yardsale
Get ready to deliver!

Clean out that garage, attic and shed and bring your yard sale donations to the lower church all week from October 4 to 8. Please save clothing donations for the Rummage Sale in November. If you need help to move that big item, please call Cori Thurlow. All proceeds to benefit the FRS's continuing series of Candlelight Choral Concerts.
Bed and Breakfast

There is a new Bed and Breakfast in town! 167 Water Street is a charming B&B in an 1845 home overlooking the river. Located a short walk from downtown, the two guest rooms with a shared bath are decorated with European and African art. A deluxe continental breakfast is included. Parking is available behind the house. $75 to $90 per room per night. Operated by FRS members Anne Dodge and Chuck Kennedy. For more information visit http://home.comcast.net/~167water/167water.html.
Joys: Linda and Will Buddenhagen celebrate the arrival from Nepal, of their granddaughter Sneha Tara Rising, daughter of Curtis and Bonnie Rising. Our family welcomes her with love, joy and gratitude.
Shared Ministry Groups

People come to our churches to be lifted out of the ordinary, to be drawn up from the mundane, and to seek relief from the rampant materialism of our culture. People come into religious communities to wrestle with life's ultimate questions, looking for a place to seek meaning about living and dying and the time in between. Shared Ministry Groups provide a way to nurture deep relationships between members as they share their lives and their faith together. Since its inception at our church two years ago; this program has grown to include 35 members in 5 active groups. This year we'd like to expand it even further. If you'd like to know more about our Shared Ministry Program please pick up a flyer in the church office or e-mail Rick Anderson at Richard.Anderson@ca.com.

More on Shared Ministry Groups: The Tuesday 10 - 11:30 shared ministry group, under Bettina Turner's, has openings. Please call the office if interested in joining.


Artists For Darfur
September 28, 2006
7:00 - 10:00 p.m.

At the Parish Hall. Free and open to the public. A benefit art show by local artists to raise awareness for the genocide in Darfur, Sudan. The public is invited to attend a special one-evening art show/sale and presentation to raise awareness for the genocide in Darfur, Sudan. Paintings by Newburyport artists Alan Bull, Gordon Przybyla, and Mia Thurlow will be on view and for sale during a reception from 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. Half of the purchase price will be donated to humanitarian relief organizations.

Background: The ongoing genocide in Darfur began in 2003. Government sponsored Arab militias, called Janjaweed, raid villages on horseback, camel, and jeeps; they are supported by government aircraft that bomb the villages. Janjaweed militia rape, mutilate and shoot fleeing villagers, including infants and children, then burn the villages, making return impossible. An estimated 2.5 million Darfurians have been displaced and as many as 400,000 murdered. The international community is not doing enough to effectively stop the massacre - the attacks have actually increased in intensity over the past months. To raise awareness of this situation, a film documentary of the Darfur crisis will be shown at 8:00 p.m. followed by a presentation of simple actions individuals and communities can take to help stop the violence.

For more information contact FRS parishioner Becky Dill at merrimackvalleyfordarfur@gmail.com.


Young Church News


     Reminders to Parents
  • Please remember that we have a no-food policy in Young Church. Please have your child finish his/her snack or breakfast before entering their classroom.

  • Parents of children in grades 3 and younger must pick up their children in their classrooms immediately following the worship service. If you want an older sibling to pick up a younger sibling, you must let the teachers know ahead of time. Thank you.

Youth Movie/Pizza Night
Friday, September 22 - 7:00 - 10:00 p.m. - Lower Meeting House. All high school youth are invited to a showing of Edward Scissorhands, hosted by the senior youth group advisors, Becky Dill, Ken Okaya, and Kelly McNamee. Come for food, fun, and a compelling film! If you're planning to come, please RSVP to Becky at 499-4426 (so the advisors know how much pizza to order).

Young Church Orientation
Sunday, September 24 - after church - Lower Meeting House. All parents new to FRS are strongly encouraged to attend our Young Church Orientation. This will be an opportunity for you to meet the Director of Religious Education and other parents, as well as to hear about our program and Unitarian Universalist religious education philosophy. Grab some coffee next door, then come to the Lower Meeting House. The session will end by 12:30.

First Friday Family Night
Friday, October 6 - 6:30 - 8:30 - Lower Meeting House. All families welcome! Come for make-your-own sundaes and Halloween games or crafts. More details forthcoming, but for now . . . save the date!

Family Service Day
Saturday, October 14 - from 9:00 until 1:00 p.m. Families of all sizes are invited to participate in our first-ever service day. Families can work on a project such as yard cleanup for the elderly, then gather at Moseley Woods for lunch and some fun. Sign up sheets will be posted in the Parish Hall for those who are interested, and please also let us know if you know of a project that needs doing. Hope to see you there!

-Julie Parker Amery, Director of Religious Education, julie.amery@verizon.net


Greek Taverna Night
Saturday, October 21

The Ladies Aid Society of the Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church of Newburyport cordially invites you to our Greek Taverna Night. This event will be held on Saturday, October 21 from 8:00 p.m. to midnight at Nicholson Hall, adjacent to our church. Greek and American music will be provided by Salonica Boys and delicious complimentary mezethakia (appetizers) will be provided. Please join us for an evening of fun and fellowship!
We've Got Questions
from the FRS History Committee

Last Month's Question: The first meeting house was in Market Square. Do you know why the congregation moved to our present location? What became of the old church?

Answer: "As early as 1785 a committee had been appointed to examine the condition of the now old meeting house. It was showing signs of much use and decay . . . the building was growing more and more dilapidated . . . The construction of the new house took somewhat over a year . . ." Early in October 1801 the old meeting house was demolished. (FRS History, Volume 1- pgs 41 - 47)

New Question: How much money did Newburyport pay the First Religions Society for the purchase of the land where the original church building was constructed? The property is now Market Square.

The answer to this, and many other questions, can be found in the two-volume history of the First Religious Society. Boxed sets of the history are available at $40.00 from the FRS office, open from 9:00 a.m. to noon weekdays during the summer.


Thank You, FRS!

From the Pettengill House, Salisbury, MA, on August 22, 2006: Dear Friends, On behalf of the staff, volunteers and Board of Directors of The Pettengill House please accept our heartfelt thanks for your recent donation of $3,000 on behalf of the Hugh Doyle Center. Your generosity and support is truly appreciated. Sincerely, Deborah M. Smith, Executive Director

From Emmaus, Inc.: Emmaus, Inc wishes to thank you for your recent donation of $425.00. Emmaus continues to make great strides in tackling the complex issues surrounding homelessness. Our new 4-unit apartment building will provide permanent affordable housing for homeless families. It is our hope that the new "Applewood Apartments" will become a bridge between homelessness and home ownership for low-income working families. Our doors are always open to our donors. We wish to invite you to tour our buildings and learn more about our rich history, worthy mission, and expansive vision for the future. One-hour tours are offered twice each month on the first Tuesday from 8 - 9:00 am and the second Wednesday from 4 - 5 pm. Please call to let us know if you plan to attend a tour.

Emmaus, Inc is proud of all our accomplishments. We have built a comprehensive continuum of services that addresses the needs of homeless families and individuals. This was made possible by the many generous and faithful individuals and organizations who have supported Emmaus throughout our twenty year history. Thank you for your generosity. I have the honor of being, Sincerely yours, Jeanine T. Murphy, Executive Director

Handwritten beneath: Thank you all for your compassion to those in such need! We are proud to be available to families and individuals in the entire North Shore area! Peace.


Young Children at Worship

Welcome to the First Religious Society! It is a great pleasure to see so many young families come through our doors on Sunday mornings. We hope that you and your family find this a welcoming community. And we hope that your time with us will be meaningful and that you might even call this your spiritual home for years to come.

Our resources prevent us from caring for children under the age of one at this time. We welcome these "babes in arms" into the worship service. Indeed, the peaceful coo of a baby is for many a welcome enhancement to their Sunday morning experience.

However, we also provide a rocking chair in the vestibule for those times that it is necessary to calm your child or to just let him or her move around. A speaker in the vestibule allows you to hear the worship service.

While families with young children are welcome to sit in the balcony facing the choir, they need to be aware that sound carries well from this area. Concerns also frequently are expressed about children leaning over the edge of the balcony.

We do ask all friends and members of the First Religious Society to bear in mind that for many, this is the only hour in the week for quiet reflection, and we request your assistance in helping us to maintain a calm and peaceful atmosphere.

Your child's early experiences in church may form his or her attitude towards church and Sunday school in later years. We recognize the importance, therefore, of providing children ages one to three with warm, welcoming, consistent nursery care. Our nursery care provider has become a beloved figure in the life of our children in the nursery. Though it sometimes takes a couple of weeks for children to get used to being in the nursery, virtually all come to love it. We hope that you will take advantage of this wonderful service.

Your child is invited to begin in a religious education class when he or she turns three. Please speak with Julie to learn more about our program.

Thank you for being here! We look forward to getting to know you and your family.

-Rev. Harold Babcock, Minister
-Julie Parker Amery, Director of Religious Education
-FRS Worship Committee

Beyond Sustainability: An Inspiring Vision of the Next 250 Years
Tuesday, October 10, from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m.
Green Sanctuary Committee of the First Unitarian Society of Exeter, NH

We are pleased to present an evening with Rev. Michael Dowd, one of the most popular speakers in Unitarian Universalist circles. He and his science-writing wife (and speaker), Connie Barlow, have been on the road as "evolutionary evangelists" for 4 years and have been featured in the UU World magazine. They have presented in more than 150 UU churches and fellowships, as well as other venues. Rev. Dowd describes this two-hour workshop: "Mainstream science reveals that the universe is going somewhere; there's a direction to evolution, and this has major consequences for humanity and for each of us personally. How can we look square on at the challenges facing us, the likely bad news, and the wild cards - yet emerge with an understanding and trust that inspire us to find and fulfill our own great work at this pivotal time?"

Lisa Earle McLeod, President of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Gwinnett (Georgia), and syndicated columnist, writes about Rev. Dowd: "Way beyond cool! This was the best presentation I have ever seen in my life. And I am not kidding. Michael confirmed every hunch I ever had about the universe. A logical and inspirational description of how science and spirituality intersect in the common plane of humanity. I've heard hundreds of speakers and I've never learned as much in one hour. I understood and absorbed every single word. Invite everybody you know and be prepared for him to blow your mind!"

The First Unitarian Society of Exeter is located 12 Elm St., Exeter, N.H.


UUA Telethon
from the UUA's Director of Campaigning

As a supplement to periodic mailings, Friends of the UUA will be conducting its annual fundraising phonathon beginning the week of October 9th and continuing through mid- November. Outreach Associates, a telemarketing firm located in Pittsburgh, will be phoning members who are currently active Friends of the UUA to ask them to renew their support and to consider becoming Sustaining Friends. (As you may know, Sustaining Friends agree to provide recurring monthly contributions, which increase the efficiency and effectiveness of donations as we reduce the frequency of solicitations to that group.) Our contract with this firm requires that all callers must be courteous, respectful, and succinct as they offer identified Unitarian Universalists an opportunity to support our Association directly. Your feedback about the calls will help us to monitor their quality. We have established a Friends Phonathon Hotline to facilitate that feedback: Members may call (617) 948-6525 to leave a message to ask to be placed on the "no call" list or to share a comment directly with a UUA staff member. (The Rev.) Dan King, Director of Campaigning
We the People: A Lecture Series in Exeter, NH

We the People is a series of public lectures sponsored by the Congregational, Episcopal, and Unitarian churches of Exeter, NH. Phillips Exeter Academy and the We The People Series are sponsoring three free public lectures on interfaith issues.

Friday, September 29, 2006. "Islam in the Public Square" by Professor Bruce Lawrence, chair of the Religion department at Duke University. Professor Lawrence is the author of several books on the Muslim world, including "Shattering the Myth," and is co-editor of "Messages to the World: Statements of Osama Bin Laden." 7:00 p.m. Academy Building, Phillips Exeter Academy, 53 Front St., Exeter NH. Handicapped accessible.

Friday, October 6, 2006. "Dispelling the Myths about Islam: Finding Spiritual Common Ground in the 21st Century" by Ahmed Bedier, Central Florida Director of the Council on American-Islamic Relations. Mr. Bedier lectures frequently on Islam, media relations, civil rights, hate crimes, and the Mideast. He advocates the midstream Muslim position on issues. 8:00 p.m. First Unitarian Society of Exeter 12 Elm St., Exeter, NH. Handicapped accessible.

Date and time to be announced. "An Inter-religious Dialogue: After September 11, the New Agenda" by Susannah Heschel, Professor of Jewish Studies at Dartmouth College. Professor Heschel is author of "Inside/Outside: American Jews and Multiculturalism." Exeter Congregational Church, 21 Front St., Exeter NH Handicapped accessible.


Cradles to Crayons
Donations Needed

The Sayles and Downs families of the FRS are partnering with Cradles to Crayons for a one-day drive, to provide much-needed baby equipment and supplies to our community's neediest families. Bring your donations of new school supplies and new and gently-used baby items to the Parish Hall between 10:00 a.m. and 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, September 30. Your donations make a big difference.

For more on Cradle to Crayons see www.cradlestocrayons.org.


The Great Unfinished Business
Saturday, September 30, Dorchester, MA

The Rev. Roberta Finkelstein will give the keynote address ("The Great Unfinished Business") at the New Massachusetts Universalist Convention's Annual Conference on Saturday, Sept. 30, at First Parish Church in Dorchester, 10 Parish St., Dorchester, MA.

Worship ("The Good Luck Legend") will be led by the Rev. Edmund Robinson and members of the First Church in Belmont, MA. The day's program will also include a workshop by the Rev. Dr. Elizabeth Strong ("Remember Universalism into Life,"), a presentation by the Rev. Richard Trudeau ("The Tragedy, and the Glory, of Christianity,"), a panel of "old-time Universalists" reflecting on how Universalism as they remember it differs from today's UUism, and an optional car-pool to one or more Dorchester Universalist sites led by Phil Lindsay. The day will run from 8:30 to 4:30 and include food (continental breakfast, lunch, afternoon snack) and lots of good conversation.

Cost: $25 per person--includes continental breakfast, lunch and afternoon snack.

See http://www.nmuc.org/AnnualMeeting.htm for more information.


Take me home!